This week’s Scripture Reading came from the Book of Exodus. The Egyptian King was worried about national security. He had allowed more Hebrew people into the country than he and his government could control. Egypt’s enemies were threatening war and the King was afraid the Hebrew people would multiply, rise up and flee the country to side with the enemy. Despite punitive measures, the Hebrew people thrive with the help of two Egyptian midwives and the Pharaoh’s own daughter. As the story goes, the Hebrew people eventually leave Egypt in a mass Exodus. God parts the Red Sea to allow the Hebrew people to escape, the Egyptian soldiers follow, God rolls back the sea and the soldiers all drown.
The Minister at St Andrew’s Wesley, put this story in a modern context. During the worship service and sermon, the Minister mentioned how glad he was as a brand new Canadian to be involved in a such a welcoming church as St Andrew’s Wesley. He told how his family and a small delegation from the church came out to his citizenship ceremony last week.
To fill the congregation in of what happens before and during a citizenship ceremony, he told them a little bit about the process. He said he had to study Canadian history to learn about the political process and culture. Then he had to live here for several years. And finally, he had to pass a test of his Canadian knowledge and a criminal and terrorist background check.
Part of the Worship Service involved a little ceremony to honour the Minister’s new citizenship. In answer to the question. “What do you like best about living in Canada?” The Minister said. “Oh, the usual…the beauty of the scenery, the friendliness of the people.” And then he slipped in something many new Canadians might say. He said. “He was glad to be here because of who was not here.” Ouch!
Many people pride themselves on their Canadian identity by saying “we’re not Americans”. We are not nationalistic like our American friends to the South. We are peacemakers.
Last week the Minister attended and urged others to protest an anti-muslim protest rally. He and many other people want to resist and quell any fear or public sentiment that Muslim refugees pose a threat to Canadians.
A growing number of Christians in Canada are more conservative. They want people to be fully aware of the risk too much rapid immigration and too many refugees poses to the Canadians already here. They also want Canadians to realize how American politics are affecting Canadians. The Democrats lost the election and they are using the media to voice their fear and mistrust of the elected President and his Conservative Government.
Many Canadians are also speaking up and out against President Trump with fear indignation, and hatred. Many are blaming President Trump for the rise in white citizens voicing their resentment or fear of people of colour using their political voice and power to oppress and silence the struggling working class white people.
The Minister at St Andrew’s Wesley created a vivid picture for me on Sunday. The cycle of deifying one’s own political group and demonizing others divides people. It causes people who are the targeted, oppressed group to multiply their numbers and to storm out or flee in anger and frustration.
Peacemakers strive to resolve conflicts through friendly means. Like Jesus, they lift up parables or word mirrors and let people see how they look to themselves and others. Peacemakers resist the temptation to throw stones. They try to promote human understanding and accept people as they are and where they are. Peacemakers encourage people in conflict to work things out in their own hearts through prayer and between themselves through dialogue.
Peace through dialogue is not always possible. In order for dialogue to work, there has to be mutual respect. Mutual respect is not possible if one partner is full of rage and bitter resentment and the other partner fuels that anger by counter protesting with better logic more political strength and more moral or public support.
I think public demonstrations vent frustration and can start a conversation. Other times demonstrations merely win people to one side or the other and promote social unrest. Like a boxing match, the one who gets in the best punches wins.
Last week, I had a fight with my Man. I was angry and hurt at something he did and I could not keep the anger out of my voice when he called. He did what he usually does when I try to explain why I am angry and upset. He hung up. This just makes me even angrier and more frustrated. I wanted to break this cycle. So being a modern gal looking for wisdom, I consulted GOOGLE.
On GOOGLE I found two interesting articles that allowed me to see what my Man and I were doing and why we were having so much trouble talking with one another.
The first article was a Huffington Post Blog What To Do When You Can’t Talk It Out posted by Dr. Margaret Paul. It opened me up to the idea that it is better to learn from the argument than it is to be right and win.
The second article was a WordPress post When He Ignores Your Hurt Feelings, Hangs Up on You or Storms Out of the Room posted by Peaceful Single Gal
The Apostle Paul wrote in Philippians 4:6-7:
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
I am learning how to be a peacemaker. The more I learn, I realize I have a lot more to learn and I am open to learning from other bloggers and readers. I look forward to hearing from you.





